Greetings.
On Part Two of this series, we ask you to look at the background behind these words and make that become the foreground of your mind. Surprising, but suddenly, you have a flash of a structure that is appealing though it is in the background, because someone tells you to look behind to what’s in front of you. You see how easy it is to confuse the mind, especially when psychologically there was but physical reaction into creation in the absence of psychological values. Unreligiously, but to understand these words, we must repeat them: What is born of flesh is but flesh and what is the born of the spirit has spirit.
Let us explain how this fits into the changes of the family structure.
If a family is not functioning well, I ask you to be honest right now, in answering this question: If your life was do to over, would you be where you’re at today? Would you repeat everything that you’ve done? Would your state of mind be what it is today? And unless you are fully happy twenty-four hours a day, because you have full control of your own mind, because of psychological values, attributed to all that is linked to you, then you would understand the processes that we are promoting to your mind today, if you don’t mind.
If I asked you to look at anyone of your children, as if they were in a lineup in front of you, if we were to monitor your physical behaviour, pattern of response to what is before your eyes, in each of those that you would look at, the needle on the meter would bounce from left to right because you would have different views about anything or anyone that your eyes would look at. This is the impact that matters have on the mind, when you have not control for lack of knowledge in mastering by love, the input of the positive that you place into what you deal with be it a human being, work or otherwise.
Changing the structure of the family begins, and we must respect the quotation, since the beginning of time, by beginning by the head of the family. Again, if you look at the background of this page, it looks like a pyramid, where each is supportive of the other and it appears at the very top of the pyramid is the head, the face, but shockingly, it is the younger one, the least heavy, and most of the time your biggest burden, because it was a product of physical activity in the absence of reality.
Simply to explain: a little girl versus a doll. You could make a doll look like a little girl but most little girls look like dolls, where the outlook is the apparent inner look, where they must have recourse to others like them; dolls that don’t speak, that don’t react, because there’s no time, because of the pressures of life and the lack of spirit in the living structure of the instructors that have become followers of trend.
We will make it a little simpler for you. If we gave each other half the attention that is required to be basically not unhappy, but not very happy, imagine when you don’t even give half of what it takes. The shock comes suddenly when the human theory is applied in a gradual manner to become a habit as a baby that must learn how to walk, speak, eat and live without fear. Perhaps you didn’t know that you have, deep inside of you, if you take time to digest as a nourishment, not a punishment, the structure of these words to make you become what you were meant to be, that you never became because of the absence of the same unto you.
Example of a shocking restructuring of one’s self. You walk about life planning a future, unknowing in its course, much less its structure. But suddenly, the fatal blow comes someone pays attention to you. Why do we say: “Pay attention”? When you’re willing to pay, it’s because you see value. You don’t pay for nothing. So, in paying attention, you’re activating what was left dormant in you by the look towards those or the one that suddenly gives you the will to live. Imagine, for example, if at 25 it hits you. You’re in love. It modifies everything about your life. It gives you the will to learn again. You feel like somebody, because you are. That’s why you feel it. Likewise onto those in the family that are expecting, subconsciously, even a greater shock than a stranger can give you in a way of love because you were born of those from whom expectation of capability were to be given you, but remain dormant until now that you understand how valuable you are to the life of others.
Try this little thing: if you need proof of a shock that is the simplest thing that you could ever live, but please make it through. Imagine, getting up in the morning, when usually you are grumpy, unhappy, unwilling to talk, but on this morning anyone you look at you say “Good morning my love!” That is sufficient to drop a bowl of cereal on the floor, where you would hear: “Are you okay?” Imagine living, believing that you are okay and expecting others to be okay, because you wonder why they look strange, knowing not that you were born to teach, but that your life was to respond to the physical tensions that are apparently released, causing you craving for more because it never satisfies unless the spirit is alive in you.
If you have tried or if you will, remember this last word ‘will’ is dangerous, because it means, I WILL. It’s like “I do.” And when you do these things, knowing the impact that they have in the life of others, then you suddenly discover that powers within you that awaken you to discover that you have missed out on such for it was unknown to those who lived by the words and not reality.
Love is a perpetual movement that begins in appreciation, in seeing the value of all that was ever created, mostly, re-instating value in all neglected things that otherwise, would partake into the structure of a reformed family that you are now seeking to develop. You must never in a wager way, as to buy out the past by trying out something new today, because you’ve already failed, if that’s what you think. You must be as a dead that walks out of his grave and starts on living. Can you imagine the shock? Because what is impossible is to become real, not bartered because of missing spaces in the structure of time, because then it becomes a lie. It is unreal and has no effect.
The pyramid you must remember, as you look in the background, bringing it to the foreground of your mind now, but replacing the people by those of your own. And if I ask you, you may find it strange, but didn’t the pyramid begin as if you turned it upside down, by one person finding another one and then building up the other way, but making spaces on either side of you to permit others to grow in-between by the protection of the core area that you are? The one that takes the blows of life to give the branches of the tree of life, to grow and stretch out until they bear fruit. Good lesson in farming, so let us call the home ‘the family farm’, not the happy farm, but a happy family environment, where all is shared and as in the pyramid, that everything must be of equal size in value, in order to be supportive of each other. In such, all have the same value and together, they can reach out and expand the structure into the heavens, for it took its origins into the wisdom that comes from above.
We ask you know, if you could, take pencil and a piece of paper and as we will do here on this document, we will write the letter X in big to explain, as you see. If you look at the bottom part of the X, you have the pyramid, and the upper part, an upside down pyramid, a funnel, in which wisdom is dropped in to begin the motion of the tree of life in the family. This is where that the words given us in wisdom are a way of life, a way of stability, a way of unity, where the giver becomes a servant to the recipient, as the breast to the baby, rather than the baby has the breast. Which means, you cannot ask a child to be an adult before its time. Just like a young colt, you cannot ride them. Their back, their bones are too weak. They must gain strength by the nourishment of stability through the love, security of home, not only in a financial way but mostly in a spiritual way. I did not say religious way. A spiritual way is a way that the wisdom is granted to those who truly seek the best because of their spiritual value for all that was created by the power of the spirit, which is the foundation of true love between people.
If you look at nature, you may have a seed, you may have the soil, but unless you have two elements from outer space to partake in their growth, nothing will grow. The sunshine and imagine, the water that is taken up in the form of clouds and moved over as a garden hose, over the seed that you believe could cause to grow. Your maker partakes in all that you do and mostly, that you fail to do. This is why there is always someone, somewhere, who seems to have the ability to do great things, for your own children, where it seems impossible for you to do. It is not so. It would be much greater if it came from you, then a stranger who understands that you have not yet seen the importance of your presence in the life of the seed that has grown in your absence. This is why there is artificial lighting as there is natural lighting. You could grow hydroponically, without soil, just in water. It’s like telling you, “You don’t need the earth to grow things” because this is a form of wisdom. Isn’t the child growing for nine months, hydroponically in the womb? And because of the physical errors of the human, your maker has permitted life to take place, where now he extends the spirit of wisdom to your heart for you to know that you are a beacon of light in the life of those that you omit to shine upon. Sort of saying: ‘turn the lights on’.
You’re living in darkness and shine upon those that if they were to die today or tomorrow, suddenly you’d recognize how valuable they should have been yesterday. That shakes you into discovering that there is something good in you. So let the light of the spirit come on. Shine over those that have been patiently awaiting for something they sensed around them, but could not recognize until you came out of the grave time that you’re living now in despair, to become joyful and partaking in the new world that begins now in your own family structure.
We love you this much, that we want to be that light because we are under the light, not the spot light, only as a reaching hand to take all things new, beginning by you, in such, with me.

Thank you for reading. Food for thought

Upcoming Articles:
The third article will be: Replacing Negative Habits by Positive Ones.
The fourth article will be: Learning Without Instructions.
The fifth article will be: Living With New Habits.
The sixth article will be: Becoming Effective In a Negative World.
The seventh article will be: The Power of Yes That Everything is Possible and Challenge It.
The eighth article will be: The Rippling Effect of the New You (the life of the party).
The ninth article will be: A Nation of The Same
The tenth article (conclusion): The Era of Peace
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