Welcome to our first article called: Family Structure. All begins in the mind by the structure of the family in its security, bonded unity or insecurity and lack of unity by single parenting or parenting under social pressures, working and existing merely to survive. With such a frame of mind all that you do is neglected by the absence of desire to accomplish well a task that if you were happy, its structure would reveal the presence of unity between the worker and the work. If you look in the world today, everyone feels underpaid for what one does. Even the richest men of the world, according to his or her own calculations, are worth more than they receive, when they have it all for being smarter than the others. If we look at the family structure today, be it in the well to do family or the poorest of poor, you will find similarities where the pressures of life for instance, to maintain a lifestyle that gives you a good outlook towards others, or thriving as hard as you can with the little that you get to maintain the little that you have. If we take, for instance, and it is in learning only because I want nothing of what you read to be taken religiously, rather facts of life; are you not earning a living to the sweat of your face? That it is almost hard labour? Even if you are in the six digit salary, because you always have someone to compete against and in both cases, the poor and the rich, it is yourself that you compete against. Stability of mind sort of saying ‘peace of mind’ through the acknowledgement that you have a meaning to someone in this world, that in itself triggers a desire for accomplishment, where it usually begins with an intent to prove to someone that you are somebody, but if you remain too long in that frame of mind, you will have never accomplished anything for yourself. In this pattern, you will find that the onlookers that you insist to prove yourself to developing a habit of expectation from you because of your persistence in proving yourself. The difference now that we wish for you to understand is that in the health part of one’s life, something has to give under pressure. People then start looking at ways to take a break, just like on a job - a coffee break. Stimulation becomes necessary because of the habit of continuously trying to prove yourself. If one took at heart that his or her coffee break is for a little snooze under the trees, perhaps for a half an hour or fifteen minutes and recognizing that this precious time is yours, you cannot pass this time watching for the clock that will send you back racing, otherwise you never had your break and believe that you did. In such, your health becomes affected by the habit of continuously trying to prove yourself. You must understand that the day is divided between night and day. The night is a time to rest. Did you know that there are 3 stages of sleep? The first one we’ll use the expression ‘sleeping with one eye open’. Usually, you will find that one filled with 5 cups of coffee, perhaps a bunch of cigarettes or alcohol, in order to modify the day in believing that he is getting a break. Instead, you are missing two thirds of your sleep. Stage number two: takes a little while, but you fall asleep with both eyes closed but your ears at high volume, should anything come and frighten you. So therefore, you gain a little more of closing your eyes, but not much more in sleeping. That is the second third of your sleep that you loose. The third step, (wow, this one is good!) it almost seems as a heartless person that doesn’t care about the world or any one anymore, because that one has the habit of separating the day from the night, knowing very well that there’s nothing you could do to modify the day in the middle of the night. That one will rest well and you may need a fire engine to wake up that one. But this is one that has a different pattern of life, whether it is in existing or loving life. And again, we remind you of the earning a living to the sweat of your face. This is where the problems with health care begin, social services, and judicial system. Because when fear sets in, into someone that continuously tries to prove himself or herself to anyone that seems interested, perhaps because they gave them a job, tension begins because the human body could only take so much pressure. This is when the wages are too low, the interest in the work diminishes, the family structure is affected by this change and it structure and eventually you have a down fall that was created by social pressures, rather than having a nation working together in a family structure to the benefit of all and not to the detriment of the poor. As you could see, poor health because of poor living conditions - limited conditions, where the mother must become a worker, rather than a mother, and try to return to the role of mother after the pressures of the day, which takes away from the night, that she so well deserves. In order to reduce healthcare costs, it is not important to look for the medicines of healing and environments of healing, but to prevent the burning out of the individuals by the pressures we put on the family in order to achieve a progress in a mechanical way and in such, we come to the point that we treat the humans as mechanical robots tat are not supposed to fail, in the name of progress. What is progress? Is it security in the form of monies, or security at 65 when the body has been accustomed to the habit of insecurity in order to achieve what appears on that day to be security? Just to tell you how dangerous that is. You will be shocked, though you have heard this before. A chronic alcoholic cannot be cut off the substance at once, because there is a withdrawal that takes place in order to change a pattern of life in someone. This is why that you have heard and perhaps known yourself, someone, who quit working at 65 and if that person doesn’t move to a different habit of doing something, that person is as vulnerable to death as the one who would be suddenly cut off alcohol, after years of exposure to such. So the bottom line is that if you don’t work to the sweat of your face, but the at work becomes as a hobby, maybe that’s why they call men the hubbies, then the structure of the family environment is pleasant, as well as the work environment; and only through this type of environment can we restructure the family and the health care and social services, also correctional, by having a pattern of enjoyment in living from the date of birth until retirement, which would then not really sound like ‘tired’. It would be more like an old car that is being re-tired, new tires on to the joy of retirement, even an old car feels good with new shoes. Imagine, if life became so beautiful that we’d see ourselves in new shoes everyday, because the nation would have become a family environment where the family structure is its main asset. You could imagine the quality of work that would come out of such people and the stability of the home because of governments who would accept to be the fathers of the nation. Remember, and again, please , not religiously, when Mary and cousins of Jesus, that they called brethren, came to the place that he was speaking, and told them: “Your mothers and your brothers are here.” He replied: “My mother and my brothers are those who believe in these words and live by them.” In such, he was saying the whole nation living by the love that I have will be the first nation of all nations, to have a role model that the world would envy without dictatorship, without surrender, but by desires of all citizens to be happy in the family that the governing bodies would extend to them, in reaching out to the least among them. It is then that you love me. Thank you for reading. Food for thoughts for today. It is but a beginning in words that must become reality in flesh. Imagine never having to take notes because it would become motion in you, as it is offered you, as a source of spiritual food that will overtake living of bread alone. Bless your little hearts, you my children that are hearing these words as you read them, for my heart goes out to you, to establish this family environment here in Canada, beginning by you and me, last. Then you will know the era of peace promised because I promised it to you. If you will allow me to love you as such. Yours truly, Roger Poisson For the Word and remember, the Word was, then the Word became the flesh. Thank you.