Greetings my friends,

Is homosexuality or same sex marriage, a dividing force for the nation? If we take time to look at the issues at hand, must we not also look at the statistics on successful marriages in the land? Morality is what any type of relationship should take its roots in.

We have as much to condemn in marriages of any kind, as to the issue of gay or same sex marriage. Should we not put on hold all marriages since their success is so minimal, that these statistics should halt, all future marriages, because the children always end up the victims of such as in homosexuality and other relationship, issue. I have a son who is gay, had I been there for him, rather then someone else, it could have been different. If a man other then me, has reached out to my son, rather then him going to suicide, or drugs, that cannot be corrected, and kept him alive, what can one say? I am not promoting, nor accepting the issues at hand at all. I am not for gay marriage, nor for forced marriages, nor because the girl is pregnant nor because of Royalty obligations. Because marriage is to be, totally in a spiritual, heart connection without the issue of flesh between people.

Marriage is to be as, entering heaven together, without physical exploitation on the part of either one of the two. Marriage is to be a sacred bonding between shores, bridged by two hearts communication. Marriage is to be as blood brothers as in a child friendship, we used to have a desire to make each other’s blood touch, since the friendship was to last forever, without any physical contact, other then an embrace, of true comrade to grow forever.

How I wish today to have been a better father then I was, not because my son has become gay, rather to have had the privilege of seeing him grow, and to have shouldered him as my own flesh growing side by side with me, oh how I wish it were so, even today, to see him laugh rather then to think of the many nights he could have been crying, longing for a father that was not. How I miss him, how I believe such a beautiful relationship with my son would have filled his heart with joy and happiness not to mention mine.

How many dictator father, there were, alcoholics, or never there, even if present but not noticing the child. Perhaps, the little girl, missing a father, or the true mothering of a mother that knew not how to mother, as her mother knew not better.

Perhaps a young women having been ridiculed or treated in a lesser way by a mother that favored another one. Or a father,  that frightened his children by physical abuse, or by the bad example, of abusing the mother. How many have told me of the atrocities of loneliness that only a good friend could understand. Sometimes a stranger is better then the suffering of loneliness, in not being noticed by a parent, or divorced parents bad example for marriages.

I think that this nation needs a true spiritual growth where every one needs to be re discovered by those who, unknowingly have participated in sending their sons or daughters to other men or women. Even between man and women, I hear always I left home and married because anything was better then home. Let us call home our children, lost somewhere in the world, and tell them we love them with all our heart. Let life take its course after.

The marriage between father and son, in a family matter, is something that no divorce court will ever have to deal with. No one can father better then a father that realizes the pain he has caused to his children’s heart. When all men will put back together what they have taken apart, the world will change. To the young out there, be it that you are gay, lesbian or otherwise

I am here to father you. Anyone should get the opportunity to be fathered or mothered before thinking marriage. Only then things will be different in their hearts. No man can ever love a women better then a father truly loving his daughter, nor a women loving her man better then a mother that truly loves her son. A parent’s love is always to be greater since the physical needs are never present, but the hearts recognizing themselves in the eyes of the other watching themselves growing in that child.

After all the definition of the word gay is to be happy. Let us open for Canada a door to family values. To put, an end, to dictatorship. In the disguise of love we have come so far, but the results should tell us of our great failure in our children. Even in leadership you will recognize their weakness as to guaranteeing the rights of expression, since they themselves were pressured to open possibilities of communication with one or both of the parents. WE tend to oppress religions and to separate the Church from Governments. Morality cannot be taught neither in schools nor Churches nor Governments. The example of respect,  for the children,  as much as for man and women,  must be born in all, by letting values been exposed where one’s choice will seek the greater of the two.

Let us plunge our nation in a dialogue between all people beginning by an agreed immunity of ridicule towards any one in order to open a line between all different oppositions to the subject of happiness. Imagine for a moment, is there one of us not wishing to have had a beautiful relationship with our parents at its best possible? So lets turn the tables of time around and begin.

How can we speak of tomorrow without facing today. Yesterday seems so far away while its traces are sprouting out in our human shield of shame in the disguise of pride.

If physical requests were to vanish forever would we have something to argue about? Would there be marriages at all?  So lets put into marriage the true essence of its purpose.  A unique bond of heart, not  been shattered by issues as we tend to make relevant. A family environment is to become a  structure of joy for all Canadians to take part in, and  to give all of us a sense of direction that would become universal.

We need to bring people together, homosexual lesbian  straight as they say or what ever. We need to rediscover the importance of togetherness. We must also love with all our hearts every one in the land and I repeat with all our heart  and let the magic of true human spiritual value of love in the absence of physical looks or preference and desires.

This is a call to discovery for all as to the importance of good parenting before any other ventures in any kind of relationship with others in order to have completed the first and most important stage of one’s life graduating from family life  (With absolute success) in order to be ready for the next step which is the corner stone of one’s perfect maturity and formation to face a most challenging connection with the outside world of happiness. If one has never been happy, one needs to discover independent happiness, before entangling oneself to another relationship that should never fail. Guidance is the only formation that can and will assure one’s control over oneself without implicating any one in the roots of  influencing someone by sexuality especially in the disguise of love. Other wise it will never work.

God Bless you all.    Roger Poisson

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